There are lots of things that I wish for my kids... but this week, I realized that I wish for them to have a true friend in their life. A friend that takes them the way they are, that doesn't take them for granted and is there for them good and bad. I had that. I have that. This last week I lost my friend Tracy. She was my true friend. She was the first one outside of my family to hold Jackson and Maya. She was beside me when I got married. She came as soon as John called her to come visit me when I moved to what I thought was isolation. Here are a couple other tidbits about me and Tracy...
We were born one day apart and on our 19th birthday we decided to go to Cedar Point on a bus trip and didn't ride one roller coaster. We sat in the eating areas and ate and talked and watched everyone pass by.
She introduced me to Hamburger Helper. A staple in my house to this day.
She was the only person other than me, that I know, that would never turn down an opportunity for a coffee.
We could spend the whole weekend together doing a jig saw puzzle and she was one of the only people that wouldn't piss me off if she filled in some of my crossword puzzle.
She was my football friend. Someone whose team (Lions) was even worse than mine (Browns).
I admit, I'm sad. But I just feel so lucky that I was a part of her life for the past 23 years. We have been friends since the first day for grade 9 religion class. How lucky was I?